“My initial placement in an institution was a difficult ordeal, characterized by a lack of footing and unmet needs. However, when I returned to my family, I discovered that living conditions in the institution were more favorable than at home. My brother, sister and I therefore chose to return to the juvenile justice system, knowing that our needs were better met there. Despite the constant challenges of adjustment, these institutions allowed us to grow and develop.”

“I want to express my deep gratitude to the educators and staff who have played a crucial role in my life. Their support and dedication have had a great impact, and I remain in contact with some of them. Their work is essential and deserves recognition, because without them many children like me would not have grown into happy adults.”

Learning to manage emotions was essential for Melanie. Thanks to the support of educators and psychologists, she learned to understand and channel her emotions in a positive way. “Even as an adult, this remains an ongoing learning process. It is important to teach children, especially those who have experienced abuse, to recognize their emotions, demand respect and not accept toxic relationships.”

“Today I find peace in my personal life with my family and in my work, in which I help children. This mission gives me a sense of fulfillment and the opportunity to give back what I myself have received. For me, resilience is due to several factors: the recognition of the work of educators, the understanding of the challenges of parenting, and the importance of supporting parents without judgment.”

“To children who have similar experiences to mine, I recommend focusing on their own happiness and making courageous decisions to move forward. It is important to build a positive future and surround themselves with people who encourage them in their development. To policy makers, I would convey the urgency to improve support services for parents to provide a healthy environment without feeling judged.”

I am especially grateful to SOS Children’s Villages for helping me build resilience by participating in their projects and providing valuable support in healing my inner child. Thanks to them, I continue to move forward with hope and determination. Together, we can make a substantial difference in the lives of foster children and help them build a better future.